Just because you’re nice doesn’t mean you should open up to everyone.
Just because you’re a leader or a teacher doesn’t mean you should lead everyone or teach everyone.
Just because you got a lot of money doesn’t mean you give it away to just anyone.
Some people are unfamiliar with a pure vessel and will not appreciate your heart. And they’ll stab you emotionally or mentally and think it’s normal they’ll leave you broken like the rest. It won’t be on purpose but they were never healed or fixed their issues so they mess up what’s fixed in you. You can’t open up to people who don’t understand and value you. They don’t know how you operate.
Just because you’re wise and you can teach great things and lead right doesn’t mean you put everyone under your wing. Some people are just toxic and can become a virus and pollute the rest of the people under you. ““But avoid foolish controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law, because these are unprofitable and useless. Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them.”‭‭Titus‬ ‭3:9-10‬ ‭
You’re circle should be with people who all share the same mentality. A team that thinks and works together move ahead more efficiently. 
Evaluate whose in your circle cause one bad seed can ruin the whole organization. A bad treasurer can lead a company into bankruptcy. 
You gotta learn to build your wealth and when you’ve learn everything you could about money management then you save as much but don’t go pouring all your money into someone who doesn’t understand money. You’ll find yourself broke along with them. You learn how to build wealth then go back to teach them and give. Your kind heart if not managed can lead you to downfall. 
You aren’t the answer to anyone’s solution. Get out of the mindset that you’re the answer but you’re someone who can only help. You’re a vessel, you aren’t Jesus.